I would like to share with you some reading that I have found helpful to my clients.
The Anxiety and Phobia Workbook, by Edmund Bourne.
Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy, by David Burns
What Makes Love Last
The Relationship Cure
Why Marriages Succeed or Fail by John Gottman
The Dance of Anger, The Dance of Intimacy, by Harriet Lerner
Private Lies, by Frank Pittman
After the Affair: Healing the pain and rebuilding the the trust when a partner has been unfaithful, by Janis A. Spring
Plan B by Anne Lamott